The Lord is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26

Showing posts with label Travel Gainesville Hawthorne. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Travel Gainesville Hawthorne. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 30, 2025

My Last Post for 2025

a good goal for every year

This is the last Hodgepodge for 2025. If you want to join in by answering these questions on your blog, click here.

 1. Did you make resolutions or set goals for the year we're waving goodbye? How did that work out for you? Will you set any goals for this new year, new season, or new month? Share one or two if you'd like to share. 

I don't remember making any specific New Year's resolutions for 2025. But I do try to not repeat past mistakes, striving to "get it right!!!" -- whatever the issue is at hand.

wisdom from FaceBook

2. When did you have the most fun this year? 

We have visited a lot of historical places this year (which I wrote about in our Christmas newsletter). I have discovered how much I enjoy museums and learning life lessons from the experiences of others. (with the hope maybe I can avoid some of their pitfalls??)

3. What's a song or song lyric you'll associate with 2025? Tell us why. 

One of my sons and I were talking about music from years ago that we have recently enjoyed again. "Praise the Lord" by The Imperials has blessed me any/every time I hear it and it's been revived for me in 2025. This is the link on youtube: Praise the Lord


4. Best (or a favorite) bite of something delicious you tasted this year? 

The day after Christmas we met family at Da Vinci Pizza and Pasta in Gainesville. I ordered an entire pizza for myself so I could take home the leftovers for supper. At the first bite I knew I'd made the right decision. It tasted so good that I had to remind myself to save some for the take-home box!


I am also infatuated with the sweet, spicy pickles served at Couchon Butcher, a popular casual sidewalk cafe in New Orleans where we dined 3 times during our November trip. 

5. What do you want to do more of in the new year? Less of? 


More laughter, more bike rides, more walks, more time to read, more pizza, more laughter, more quiet meals with loved ones beside water (ocean, Gulf, rivers, streams, lakes), more blogging, and a better understanding of the issues that trouble me. 

Less concern about those things I cannot change (although prayer about them will continue).

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

This, from Marcus Stanley on Facebook, really says it for me: 


It is a fact that we cannot blink our eyes or take a breath of air without God's grace. He could "pull the plug" at any time! We need to express our gratitude to Him for everything.

One of my girlfriends is distributing these tickets for New Year's Eve.  I got one for YOU! ðŸ¤­ðŸŽ‰ðŸ¥³ (Thank you, Ona!)


Thanks for reading my blog this past year. I hope we can continue this relationship in 2026! We all need validation and kindness. You so considerately do that for me in your comments, and I try to return the favor on your blogs as well. 

Both now and into next year, grace and peace to you.
Barbara



Friday, May 16, 2025

Old Florida

outside The Yearling Restaurant
Hawthorne, Florida 

Often, celebrations are not restricted to just one day on the calendar, and especially if the special things you want to do cannot be scheduled on that particular day. Such was the case for our 3rd anniversary, which was the topic of my previous blog post, "Celebrations." 

We wanted to tour the home of the late author, Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings (The Yearling, Cross Creek, South Moon Under, The Sojourner, The Secret River, and more) which is now a state historic park located about 25 miles north of us.  The tour through her home was not available on our anniversary, but two days later 'her calendar' and ours could agree and so we made a day-date of it.


Before I go further, I need to tell you that there are terms used around here, that may not be commonly known in the rest of the USA: "Old Florida" and "Real Florida." On Google that is defined as "anything from the mid-20th century or before." Or to update the term, "anything before Disney and all the other big-money theme parks invaded this peninsula." (my words)

entrance to the park

Don't get me wrong, the theme parks have their place. Years ago I spent a lot of the green stuff there and even enabled the dream of one of my children to move to Florida to work for The Mouse for nearly twenty years. I do have an appreciation for the incredible ingenuity and awesomeness of Disney, Universal, Sea World, Legoland, Busch Gardens, and so forth. I don't know about today, but back in the day, the expectations made of the Disney Cast Members (what they called their employees) was excellent.

entrance to the home

It's not unusual for seniors like us to enjoy looking back into history. Visiting the home of this author was an opportunity to be in the Real Florida, the Old Florida. 

approaching from the parking lot

Entrance to this state park is free but we did have to pay $3 for all-day parking. We arrived at 9am, giving us time to wander about the grounds freely and as you will see, there was a lot of opportunity for photography. (I'm not sharing all of my pics; there were just too many.)

me with our docent in period dress

Shortly before the tour of the house began at 10am, our docent came outside to greet us. Caroline was very pleasant and knowledgeable. To prepare for her volunteer position, she did a lot of reading research and sewed her costume.

Gary in the barn

The tour began in the barn where we signed the guest book and met up with the rest of the group, about a dozen adults total.


This gorgeous Oldsmobile sits in the car port of the home, although it is not the original vehicle. We didn't catch the year but somewhere in the roaring twenties is my guess. 


The house is more long than wide because the rooms have windows on both front and back to allow the breeze to flow through in an era before air conditioning became the norm for Florida. 

front of the house

There were lots of flowers on the property including Vinca, Oleander, Nasturtiums, Queen Anne's Lace, and more.

just inside the front door

This may be my favorite room of the house because of the huge screened windows providing inspiration for the typewriter on the table. While I could never go back to this old-fashioned method of writing, I know my laptop computer would perform well in this setting.

living room

This room was the kitchen at the first, but Ms. Rawlings converted it to a living room. The closet in the corner originally served as the kitchen pantry, but later the area inside and above the closet was designated as the storage place for liquid spirits during Prohibition. ðŸ¤­
one of the bedrooms
I have lost count how many bedrooms (2 or 3?) but was more interested in the beautiful quilts. Although I have my own long history of quilting, I did not want to slow down the material the docent needed to cover before the next tour group, so I did not ask about these quilts. They may not be original to the house, but rather donated from that period and/or popular style from that day.

an example of period dress

We don't see style like this much these days unless in the theater. The details and modesty of design are tasteful and lovely.

formal dining room

The formal dining room was another of my favorites. We were told the original dining table was much bigger than this one with seating for 15 guests! Yes, they surely must have been sitting elbow-to-elbow, but I've heard Ina Garten on the Food Network say that a close dining experience helps conversation to flow better. 

the kitchen stove

This is the only snapshot I took in the kitchen. Not the original stove, but one very similar, it's what Ms. Rawlings used to perfect her enjoyment of cooking. One of her popular books is Cross Creek Cookery, of which I happen to have a copy right here beside me as I type! Good friend and blog-reader, Ona, has loaned me her copy. Maybe I'll try some of the recipes....

the first toilet in the home

One of the charming stories shared in our tour regarded the first toilet on the property. The outhouse in the back is still standing but don't you know this porcelain upgrade was most welcome! 

As the story goes, Ms. Rawlings loved to entertain and hosted a party after the bathroom was completed. Her uncle was not able to attend the party but sent a bouquet of roses. Visitors would be walking through the bathroom to see both the toilet and the bathtub, so our hostess placed the roses in the toilet, where they got all the water they needed and beautifully displayed the new convenience! 

These flowers for our tour were cut from the gardens outside. Speaking of flowers and gardens .....

the vegetable and flower garden

My snapshot of the garden, just steps from the house, does not do it justice. In person, this was beautiful and so well plotted out. On an interesting note, you see the wire fencing surrounding the garden. Every few feet a half bar of Irish Spring soap was in a plastic bag and tied to the fence, surely meant as a deterrent to animals wanting to dine on the fresh edibles.

street view of the restaurant

We thoroughly enjoyed the tour of the house and grounds, which lasted just under one hour. Lunch time was approaching, so we drove less than a mile to another well-known (around here) landmark, The Yearling Restaurant. 


Well-known for serving local exotic carnivore edibles, as well as the usual fare, we wanted to give it a try. The place has quite a reputation.

rustic in appearance

Nestled among huge Spanish moss-laden oak trees with a lot of shade and dense undergrowth, we nearly missed our destination. I'll frankly say the outside appearance is not impressive.... but maybe that's because that's what "old Florida" looks like! 
 
grilled pork sandwich with a side of collards

Although the outside decor made us wonder, inside did not disappoint. Taxidermy animals watch the diners enjoy gator bites and other entrees that are outside of the norm for city folk. We both are not quite that adventurous, so Gary ordered the fried pork sandwich while mine was grilled. He enjoyed fries but one of my goals for the day was to enjoy old south collards (which I have come to love since moving to Florida). 

In addition to the restaurant, inside the building is a gift shop and other merchandise throughout, including used books on many topics, some of them by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings (of course, since the restaurant is named after her most famous novel). 


Before leaving for home, we found this 13-foot long gator in one of the many dining rooms. It was hard to get a clear snapshot of him with so many other eye-catching aspects of this room, but I could not leave him out of this report.

Sister's Basset Hounds

To close out this blog post about celebration, I want to tip my hat to Sister, who is having a birthday this weekend. We live some thousand miles from each other, so the only cake I can send to her is a photo she sent to me of her two Basset Hounds on their birthday a couple of months ago. These were doggy-edible treats, but I'm sure Sister will enjoy something suitable for humans. 

Mama and [my] Sister

Sister looked after Mama for many years as our mother's health dictated needed changes, moving from living in Chicago by herself to her new home closer to Sister and more family in a rural setting. Then there was the transition to assisted living and eventually to a nursing home. The adaptations Sister made with our mother's changing needs were many and sometimes baffling. This past October Mama's earthly story came to a peaceful end.

With some chagrin I share with you the terribly self-centered, childish request I made to my mother well over 60 years ago when I said I didn't want to have a little sister any more. I wanted to be an only child. While Mama listened to my reasons (none of which come to mind now), she let me know I would have to be content with things as they were, and the conversation was concluded.

All these years later, I'm really glad to have had Sister in my life, and still do! Our family moved A LOT of times during our school years and so by default at least, we were the only friends we each had with every new location. 

Happy Birthday, Sister! Have many more! I am thankful for you and I love you!

Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
for [sisters] to dwell together in unity!
Psalm 133:1

Easter 1957
Left to right: me, Mama, Sister

Until next time, grace and peace.





Sunday, April 27, 2025

Sunday Interlude


Easter morning dawned bright and beautiful at our house. Forgoing our usual after-breakfast bicycle ride in the neighborhood, we got ourselves out the door very early to attend the first worship service at church. The thought was to avoid traffic if we opted for the earliest of the services offered and that worked well for us. This particular service also followed a more traditional music format, which we prefer. It was just right.


There's been a lot of talk on our neighborhood Facebook page about coyotes roaming through the yards; but I'm happy to report the Easter Bunny came and went without incident, leaving his gifts of chocolate.


After church, we changed into more casual clothes and drove to my niece's home with our offering of potato salad for the big meal.


Upon our arrival we were greeted by Desi the Macaw, who rules the roost from a large cage in the kitchen great room area of the home. He had been enjoying some freedom in the dining area but was tucked back into his cage when we arrived. His yellow chest feathers are so beautiful and looked soft to the touch, but before venturing any closer, I asked if I could pet him. My niece said he's not that people-friendly with strangers, so I just spoke to him with polite respect and kept my distance.


My niece and nephew-in-law are wonderful hosts who take a lot of enjoyment in filling their home with animals and people, and feeding us all with great generosity.


We were thrilled to be invited (yet again) to their family gathering. In years past I've done a lot of entertaining. Now it's so pleasant to be invited as a guest.


It's been a full week for us as we transitioned from the Easter holiday to preparing for out-of-town guests. Gary's son and wife, one of Gary's grandsons and his wife, and their toddler daughter came to town for a few days from way up north. They stayed in a local hotel since our house is not big enough to over-night many people. They rented a vehicle at the airport that was big enough to carry around all 7 of us, which was a big help as we took them sight-seeing. 




Great-grandpa met this 3rd great grandchild for the first time. Since she did not scream and hide her face in her grandma's shoulder, I can accurately report that she found him acceptable. As you can see, he tried the bribe-with-food tactic, and that seemed to work. 


She even agreed to sit on his lap, still with a snack-incentive. She is Gary's third great-grandchild, but the first one for him to meet. The twin boys were born first (to another of Gary's grandchildren) but due to his surgeries last year, we could not travel up north to meet them in person.


I enjoyed seeing Gary with a child this young. In the three+ years we have been together, I have seen him interact with members of my family who are as young as 6 years, but not any who are younger than that until this weekend. He held his own very well. 


I won't give you a detailed description of all we did to entertain our guests, but will hit a few of the high points. North of us, in Gainesville, we took them to a particular location where the gators are known to hang out, the La Chua Trailhead, which is inside the bounds of Paynes Prairie Preserve State Park. 


We unexpectedly found this attraction last year when we were riding our bicycles on the trail from Gainesville to Hawthorne. On that day, the park rangers said we were seeing about 150 gators. Not as many as that were out on this day with our family, but there were still many more than I could hope to count.

In mid-to-late afternoon, these guys were pretty lethargic. They prefer to hunt at dusk and dawn and at night. It is amazing to see many birds hanging around them, and not a one was snatched by those powerful jaws while we watched. But all the same, signs told us to keep our distance and absolutely do not feed them. 

As for the close-up snapshots, be assured, I took these pictures using the zoom feature on my iPhone 16 Pro. 


This one was one of two who had adorned himself with foliage for our visit. I guess that even within the animal kingdom, some are more inclined to show off! 


In addition to the gators, we saw a lot of birds, some turtles, and logged a lot of steps. Blessedly, the weather was perfect. As you can readily see, the park is beautiful, and the walking trails are top-notch.


The next day we visited the mermaids at Weeki Wachee Springs State Park. Yes, REAL mermaids swimming underwater for a show that lasted about 20 minutes, viewed from an under-ground theater through a huge glass window! Very impressive. We heard that the girls have to train for a full year before they can be in the show.


I don't know how many people can fill the theater, but my guess is a couple hundred. We got there early enough to sit in the very middle on the second row, so we could see the show perfectly. I was impressed with how they expelled a curtain of bubbles whenever it was time for a change of scenes during the show (instead of drawing a curtain back and forth).


The price of admission also included a twenty-minute boat ride, lazy river style, where the guide pointed out interesting flora and fauna along the way.


This yellow-bellied slider turtle was sunning himself on a log as we floated by. There were also a couple of soft-shelled turtles but they were in the shade among leaves and not easily photographed. 


As we waited our turn to board this cruise, a fellow traveler snapped this picture of all of us. There are 4 generations represented here -- pretty special!


After the mermaid adventure, we drove about 20 minutes to Crumps' Landing, a well-known outdoor, "very Florida" restaurant. With lots of seating under grass-thatched roofs or canvas umbrellas right beside the Homosassa River and a lot of boat traffic, the menu is wide with everything from American burgers to calamari, and gator bites, etc. 


There are pirates (statues) stationed throughout, a playground for little people, sand, restrooms, and a gift shop. All is very casual and so pleasant. It was our second time to dine there and we consider it a favorite, in spite of the distance from our house (55 minutes).

It seems that everyone enjoyed the day but by afternoon's end, it was time to bid farewell to our guests. Their next stop is the beach, but that adventure will be minus us.

It was good to spend time with family. Now that I am older, I tend to study people more, learning life lessons from them, and appreciating how individual we all are, even as I remember we are made in God's image. (Genesis 1:27)


My regular readers may remember that a month or so ago we were assembling this wood foot bridge for our back yard. Then with the visit of our great-granddaughter, it provided a fun prop for photography this weekend. 

I have titled this blog post, "Sunday Interlude" because it's our "break in the action," so to speak as we transition from the holiday of Easter and visiting family to another adventure that begins tomorrow: more outdoor landscaping.

We have found that the bark mulch in our front and back yards is great at first, but over time the vibrant color fades. Also, with mulch being an organic material, it brought in weeds and those particularly horrible mushrooms I wrote about a few weeks ago.  The armadillos dig holes in the mulch undercover of night, and squirrels plant oak acorns which then brings itty bitty oak trees trying to take hold. Even if a barrier has been put down before the mulch, it still needs to be replenished every couple of years for maximum beauty. With all that said, the decision was made to have it scraped up, a barrier put down, and river rock will be our ground cover. 

"before"

I took snapshots of our yard as it is now, one of which is this one above. Tomorrow the scraping begins and we hope that by week's end, the entire renovation will be done. You know I'll post pictures of that because that makes for good "blog fodder."

As I close I want to quote my friend, Joyce, from her blog, From This Side of the Pond, who recently said the following:

Blogging is fun for me, it serves as a stress-reliever, and a place to work things out on paper which often helps to bring clarity of mind.

I heartily agree. Blogging also helps me to respond to this verse out of scripture:

Teach us to number our days, 
that we may gain a heart of wisdom. 
Psalm 90:12

Until next time, magnify the Lord with me, let us exalt His name together. Psalm 34:3

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