Wednesday, May 6, 2026

Lakeland Daycation

Here's something to ponder, if an enjoyable adventure lasts only about 9 hours, can it classify as a vacation? Before you think too hard, let me just go ahead and answer that. YES!


This week we drove about 2 hours south to visit our blogger friend, Terri, who writes at Your Friend From Florida (click on the title to see her blog). This was my 3rd trip over the years to see her environment; Gary had not been there before. Believe me, it's a very pleasant place to visit more than once.

Terri studying the menu

We drove to Terri's home, were introduced to her 2 cats (who gave us reasonable acceptance considering we were strangers to them and tend to be more "dog people" than "cat people." 👍🏻) We talked about the drive and then, per our agreement on prior text messages regarding the trip, Terri took us to lunch at Metro Diner. 

Be sure to note the "diner" decor in the above snapshot: black-and-white tile floor, chrome and leather stools at the counter, 50's style light fixtures... "Where the locals eat".


Both Terri and I ordered the San Francisco style of Eggs Benedict (which included avocado with ample Hollandaise sauce 😋). Gary got a chicken dinner, two-thirds of which came home with us in a box for our supper!

Gary, me, and Terri

I wonder. When restaurant managers are interviewing potential wait staff, is it mentioned how often they may get asked to snap pictures of the customers?!! 🤔

one of Lakeland's many famous swans

With a very satisfying lunch behind us, Terri filled my request to see the swans at Lake Morton. As history states, Queen Elizabeth sent swans to Lakeland years ago where they have multiplied over the years and delighted many visitors. 

a black swan
There are black swans, too, that are very bit as beautiful as the snowy white ones. Terri cautioned that the black swans are more aggressive or territorial than the white, particularly with regard to humans and other birds.

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A nest of 4 eggs was easily seen from our standpoint. We did not get close; I took the (below) picture using the zoom on my phone camera. Typically the mother swan does not leave the nest except to feed and to bathe; Mr. Swan is usually nearby and humans should not approach.

swan nest with eggs

There was a caged-in area where mama swans can be with their young in a protected environment. Due to the cage, it was hard to get as clear of a photo as I would have liked. Look to the left of the large white female to see the babies just a foot or two away from her. You can't tell in this picture, but their feathers were fluffy. Note that from their waterfront location, they have easy access for swimming lessons.


Terri gave us each a plastic cup filled with bird food that looked like dog food (kibble). I thought I had taken a picture of my cup but it was kinda tricky holding that and trying to take pictures, so I guess that didn't happen. Had I put the cup on the ground, it would have been quickly emptied!

Gary with the ducks

There were many kinds of birds on the shore of Lake Morton. The ducks were the first to spy Gary with food.

Terri

The Ibis and ducks saw free food in Terri's hands, which led to more birds flying in to feed.


I have to say, tossing the food out to these birds was a lot of fun. Unlike the tendencies of human children, not a one of these birds refused the fare with negative comments. Wherever we tossed the kibble, there was an immediate rush to gobble it up. They were at our feet, not attacking or otherwise bothering us at all. I could feel their gratitude!

Ibis at my feet

The Ibis, in particular, held my attention. Their curved beaks are dark-colored, which I assumed was due to pecking into the dirt for food. While that may be true in part, my research tells me their beaks typically change in color depending on their age and during breeding season.


I have to say, feeding the birds was the highlight of my day.

Anhinga

We saw at least one Anhinga (bird). Their feathers are not waterproof, so they will stand with their wings spread out, making them to look like they are drying out their armpits!! They do that to dry their feathers. This enables them to maintain buoyancy and to prepare for flight. 


Some 40 years ago when I was living in the Washington DC area, the newspaper published this silly little ditty about ducks. I quoted it to this duck as it approached me: (suspend your sensibilities and just read it aloud as you see it)

M R ducks.
M R not.
O S A R!
C M wangs?
L I B!
M R ducks!


Leaving Terri and Gary behind, I had walked some distance along the shore with hopes to get closer to more of the swans, but apparently they were in another area. As I approached my human companions, I saw that the birds were hopeful for more kibble, but by then it was all gone. 


Terri snapped this picture of us and then it was time to see the AGB Museum (formerly the Polk Museum of Art), which was nearby. Terri worked there for many years and has employee friends who greet her every time she brings visitors.

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The short drive to the museum was beautiful, with large trees, green lawns, flowers, lakes, birds, the campus of South Florida University, architecture by Frank Lloyd Wright, and many, many of 1920s craftsman-style bungalow houses. Terri said many of them have been renovated, which seems good since their designs are 100 years old! My goodness, I would love to wander through these houses and claim one for us; but that is a highly, highly unlikely idea. This style just looks like "home" to me. 

The Brown Bungalow, 2013-2017,
for which my blog was named

Some of my long-time readers may remember that years ago this blog was named, "The Brown Bungalow" for the house I had in Castle Rock, Colorado. Now returning to the present day...

me with an art piece
made with a lot of pink

Once inside the museum (where admission is free!!), "the facilities" were found. We wandered on the first floor to see creative art from several ages and civilizations. The afternoon was getting away from us and we had some 90 miles to travel before supper, so we did not make it to the upper floors.


However, the gift shop could not be left out, and even more so because Terri still has a discount that she shared with me. My purchases were narrowed down to these 2 refrigerator magnets:

a bit of beaded art work

And this, which just made me chuckle:

I feel sure this is a true statement for many of my readers..... Carbs do have a comforting ability when life hits hard.

We expressed our thanks to Terri for showing us such a good time (she's a wonderful hostess and tour guide), hugged her goodbye, and then headed north up to our part of the state. One stop was made along the way for soft serve vanilla ice cream cones at a Burger King.

When we pulled into the garage, we had one of those "when life hits hard" moments -- the semi-annual arrival of Love Bugs is here. Blessedly, this curse lasts only about a month (TWICE a year), but when they meet their demise on the windshields and paint of vehicles, the dead bodies of these bugs are a bummer to remove. Their chemistry eats into the car paint, so it behooves us to remove them as soon as possible. 

Gary cleans the love bugs off the car;
note the front bumper.

A combination of liquid insect remover and scrubbing with fabric softener sheets gets the job done, along with a determined amount of elbow grease.

Aside from the love bugs, it was a most enjoyable daycation with a focus on friendship, shared experiences, and beauty in several forms. We went, we saw, we enjoyed, and then we got to sleep in our own bed at night!

Regarding our enjoyment of nature, these words from the Old Testament book of Job phrase it well:

But ask the animals,
and they will teach you,
or the birds in the sky,
and they will tell you;
or speak to the earth,
and it will teach you,
or let the fish in the sea inform you.
Which of all these does not know that 
the hand of the Lord has done this?
Job 12:7-9 NIV

Until next time, grace and peace.
Barbara




Monday, May 4, 2026

Lately.....

 

our front door
Things have grown a little quieter around here of late. The snowbirds are gradually locking up and heading back to their summer homes up north in Michigan, Wisconsin, Colorado, Tennessee, and New York, escaping Florida's balmy H🥵T!!! weather until October or November. I've counted several times and concluded I almost have more friends who are snowbirds than those like us who stay here year 'round!!

door repair

While people pack up and move out, we are here dealing the circumstances of ordinary life. The weather stripping at the bottom of our front door needed replacing. Gary tackles a lot of the Honey-do's around here, but for this one a repairman was called in. He did a good job.


I've been in the kitchen a little bit of late (Gary is the Chief Chef in this house). A request was submitted for Rice Krispy Treats. I made up a pan of them and in the blink of an eye they disappeared. (it's clearly been too long since I last made that!)

The Chef has been very busy lately pulling out bushes and planting new ones, trimming the landscape, and so forth. I gave him a break by cooking lunch yesterday and serving the leftovers for a light supper. Sloppy Joes. 

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2026 Kentucky Derby

We watched the Kentucky Derby this weekend. Since our town is known as The Horse Capital of the World, it was only right that we showed some interest in the race, although the actual competition is only 2 1/2 minutes long! We had the options of watching the race at our community center and also at the World Equestrian Center, just down the road from here. But we would have had to get fancy hats for the occasion, and we are not party animals, so we enjoyed it all from the comfort of our recliners (where the food and rest rooms are just steps away 👍🏻👍🏻).

Ocala International Airport
May 1, 2026

The last piece of news I'm sharing today is that the President flew in just 5 miles from our house (closer as the crow flies 😉🤭). He then took a helicopter to The Villages where he spoke to a huge crowd.

Our runway is not long enough for his Boeing 747 to land here, so a 757 was designated as Air Force One for this trip. One of the residents in our +55 community took the above photo, which really shows off our annual wildflowers as well as the President's transportation.

me in 2016

Those of you who are on Facebook know how the app pops up old photos, asking if we want to share them with [the world]. Usually I do not. 

In the picture I'm climbing the stairs to a ranger station at Colorado's Devil's Head mountain. It's located in the Rampart Range, which is southwest of Denver. The elevation of the lookout tower is 9,748 feet. 

Devil's Head historic fire lookout tower

It's been nearly 9 years since I moved to Florida from Colorado. I kinda doubt I could handle the elevation of such hikes now. My dear friend, "Sister D," led me to many hikes in Colorado's Front Range; this was one of them. I loved getting up high, being able to look far and wide. To quote a tune by Barbra Streisand, "On a clear day you can see forever."

Speaking of mountains, this comes to mind:

I lift up my eyes to the mountains --
where does my help come from?
My help comes from the LORD,
the Maker of heaven and earth.
Psalm 121:1-2

This is a reminder to pray. We live in a day when the evening news is shockingly horrible. Let's use the headlines as prompts to pray. 

Until next time, grace and peace.
Barbara





Wednesday, April 29, 2026

April's Last Hodgepodge

Agapanthus flowers in our front yard

The Hodgepodge questions for this week are below. If you want to link up and/or answer the questions on your blog, click here.  

1.   Are you feeling more reset, restart, or full speed ahead as we move into May? Tell us why. 

I'm not sure I can differentiate between "reset" and "restart." Just climbing aboard the blogging habit after a break is where I am.  Perhaps my "reset" is the tweaks I made in my blog design; and my "restart" is deliberately putting one foot in front of the other in the dailyness of life.

2. Painting, sculpture, architecture, literature, cinema, theatre, music...what's your favorite form of art? Elaborate.  

 Oh, without a doubt, my favorite form of art is music, especially inspirational. On a fun (musical) note, often my husband sings to me! He is a fan of Elvis, but "our song" is by Rod Stewart.

Have I Told You Lately

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=doCIvWFEgN4

Then there is this: every time I begin a conversation with him about yesterday, Gary breaks into song with his version of Paul McCartney's "Yesterday." 😆


3.  What time is dinner at your house? How do you feel about leftovers? 

“Dinner” is lunch at our house, our biggest meal of the day. We don’t usually have leftovers because our meals are often prepared for just two servings. But with that said, when we do have leftovers in the fridge, it’s nice to have something that’s already been prepared to eat for a light supper (around 5pm).

Last week's lunchtime Pepperoni Rolls at Piesanos 
gave me some wonderful leftovers 
for that night's supper!

4. What's the last thing you fell down a rabbit hole investigating? 

I have questions!! With the research tools available to us now (Internet, Artificial Intelligence, and ChatGPT), it's super-easy to spend a lot of time investigating those things that baffle us. In my childhood years,  I enjoyed reading about many things in my family’s set of Encyclopedia Brittanica and The Book of Knowledge. Research today is so much easier, and faster!

Discernment as to what is truth and what is a ploy to outwit us out of our money is really important, so we need to be careful.

A list of my recent (and most frequent) "rabbit holes," includes the following:

commentaries on scripture

product reviews

psychology

5. And now for a question from the book Marilyn (Memphis Bridges) gave me...

At what are you 'self-taught?' 

Blogging. I read some informative books and websites, but in large part I had to figure out the quirks of blogging platforms on my own. That all began in 2009. I have had many blogs over the years for different interests, but now it's just this one, Journal Memories.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

hand brakes on my bicycle

Know Your Options

Recently while on our morning bicycle ride, figuratively speaking, my mental tires weren't fully inflated. I nearly "met my Maker" as an approaching car and I almost collided. The driver had the right of way, and I did my best to yield to her, but my brakes were not working! 

Blessedly, the driver slowed down to a stop while I helplessly careened right in front of her. All the while Gary was behind me shouting "use your brakes!!" 

Finally stopped on the other side of the road, thanking God for protecting me through that near miss, I learned something I had been told before but clearly had forgot, information I had not been using. 

I've got TWO hand brakes on my bicycle but I've been using only the ones on the right handle, never the other ones on the left. Each one serves a specific purpose and the one on the right had been sufficient -- until this one time. 

When we got home, Gary saw the problem with my brake and fixed it. He also explained (again) when I should use the brake on the right and when the one on the left is necessary. 

Clearly, I was not aware or paying attention to my options. I learned that in the case of bicycle brakes, this option is not just a matter of preference but more an issue of which is necessary for specific situations. 

You can be sure I am wiser for the experience! Now I am more inclined to look around other aspects of life, asking myself if I'm overlooking any other options that need my consideration. 

"..... a [person] of understanding 

and knowledge maintains order."

Proverbs 28:2b NIV

Until next time, grace and peace.

Barbara

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Sunday, April 26, 2026

When I Am Old I Shall Wear Yellow

But first, a note of thanks ...

My goodness! The nicest people read my blog, as evidenced by the beautiful comments made after the post on April 22nd. Thank you for all your kind words. They helped me to "get out of the weeds," so to speak on some things that have been weighing on my mind. So thank you all!

Now to continue with today's blog post which is a playful truth.

***********************

"When I Am Old I Shall Wear Yellow"

Up until just a few years ago, I never 

(and I mean, NEVER) wore yellow.



This personal conviction began when my (now middle-aged) children were in Kindergarten and younger. We were deciding on the paint for our children’s rooms. Not surprisingly, the boys’ walls went from builder’s basic eggshell white to blue. Our daughter got yellow, in part because pink was more than my husband wanted to see every day, and because sometime during that era our daughter decided yellow (“Lello” as she pronounced it) was her favorite color.


Around that time I read an article in the newspaper about color. It said all color has either a blue base or a yellow base. That intrigued me but then more so when I read a book, Color Me Beautiful, that said we should wear colors that compliment our skin’s basic hue. 


I analyzed myself, following that with conversations with a girlfriend at church who was really into this color idea. It was determined that I was a “winter”, which meant my best colors were the jewel, or gem tones such as blues, deep reds, purple, forest green (as opposed to olive green), navy, and black. (That meant I should not wear brown, orange, beige, and yellow)


I will add that my color consultant friend was very attractive, never wearing colors that did not flatter her skin tone. I gradually filtered out the yellow-based shades from my closet. That philosophy has worked well for me over the years and I have no regrets about it. 


But then my life took some unexpected turns. Widowhood ambushed my life. Among many changes was the loss of 20 pounds due to my grief. I eventually had to buy some new clothes because what I had just hung on me like a limp cloth. I learned that even when wearing the "right" colors, grief negatively affects one's personal appearance.


By the goodness of God, a new love caught my attention! A few months after our first date, Gary stated he wanted to give me a bicycle for my birthday. This initiated some interesting thoughts:


* Should I permit that kind of expense at this point in our relationship?

* It was decades since I last rode a bicycle. Could I even do it?

* My senior citizen body would have to make peace with a bicycle seat.

* And of course, what clothes would be bicycle-appropriate? 


When riding a bicycle, it is really important to wear clothing that road traffic can see. I read a study one time that said fire engines are more easily seen when they are painted chartreuse (yellow-green) as opposed to “fire engine red.”



That must be true because as we all know, road construction crews and outdoor landscapers often wear the yellow vests and shirts with the hope car traffic won’t hit them. Thus began my personal battle opposing one of my longest-held promises to myself: I needed some yellow clothes!


❤️ WHAT I DID FOR LOVE ❤️




This item of highway couture was my first foray into the goal of being more visible. However, the velcro tabs were a real bother and I quickly realized I wanted something else.




Yellow tops are not hard to find. I even shopped at a highway gas station where shirts for road construction crews were on sale! As the seasons came and went, I gradually collected long sleeves, short sleeves, sleeveless — supplying my athletic wardrobe for all outdoor temperatures. 


On the bottom half, I choose to wear black pants, capris, and shorts, always with a pocket big enough to hold my cell phone, in case of emergency. (That’s as important as wearing yellow, in my opinion).


At first I wore yellow only when riding our bikes but then this cute T shirt showed up when we were vacationing on Jekyll Island…. I was learning to not be so strict about this color thing. A book title came to mind that gave me further permission:




While I have no plans to go as wild as that story, I have given myself permission to broaden my wardrobe horizons a little.


I usually (but not always) wear yellow when taking a walk through my neighborhood. On impulse I found this wonderful yellow hat at a store closing sale. Clearly, by adding yellow to my closet, I have done something that years ago I never thought would happen. 


We were drinking our usual morning coffee the other day when I shared with Gary some thoughts I’d had about the future. He listened and then with the experience that accompanies years of wisdom he replied, 

“Don’t put a seal on that."


Another way of summing up his counsel is 

found in the New Testament:


Now listen, you who say, 

"Today or tomorrow we will 

go to this or that city,

spend a year there,

carry on business and make money." 

Why, you do not even know 

what will happen tomorrow...

Instead you ought to say,

"If it is the Lord's will, 

we will live and do this or that. 

James 4:13, 14, 15


*P.S. Regarding that 20 pounds I lost, I found them again.🤭


Until next time, grace and peace.

Barbara



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Lakeland Daycation

Here's something to ponder, if an enjoyable adventure lasts only about 9 hours, can it classify as a vacation? Before you think too hard...