The Lord is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26

Saturday, October 17, 2026

Blessings in Abundance

 

morning rainbow outside my front door

Every morning before we ride our bicycles, it's my habit to step out onto the front porch to check the thermometer and determine if there's going to be a headwind. To see a huge rainbow was a delightful surprise. (It was a double rainbow, which you can see fading if you look closely.)


The rainbow reminder of God's Presence was welcome. This week became unsettling when I realized it was time to dispose of outdated  paperwork that had a lot of my late husband's handwriting. 

The paperwork was a "trigger," as the counselors refer to it -- a reminder of hurt. God's grace helps us to cope, how to adapt, when that happens. He has done that for me, many times. 


Moving on to more pleasant activities this week: we once again enjoyed a lunch at the historic Yearling restaurant with people who have not been there before. 


The first time we came here, the earthy, rustic outside put us off a little.


As a city girl who was raised living near international airports and sophisticated corporate office buildings, I've learned to appreciate simple, unrefined settings. The locals refer to it as "Old Florida."


We arrived about 30 minutes before the restaurant opened; but even with its simplicity, hospitality was provided with sheltered seating where patrons can wait.


Antiques stirred up memories. My maternal grandfather worked for, and retired from, Gulf Oil back when they had offices in Tulsa, Oklahoma, before they moved their operations to Houston.

John and Pam

Our lunch friends arrived shortly after we got there. Many of you will recognize Pam and her husband from her blog, Closed Doors, Open Windows. With that introduction, I encourage you to visit her blog by clicking on this title, Friday Foto Friends~A "Wild" Lunch.  I've described The Yearling in previous posts, but she has done a much better job than me.

John and Gary at our booth

After ordering our food, we girls got up to walk around and take pictures while the fellas (who have met previously several times before this visit) got caught up with guy-talk. 

my lunch

In keeping with the habit of many bloggers, I snapped a picture of my food. When eating out, I often order what I don't usually eat at home. This time it was a side of collard greens (something Gary's surgery prohibits him from enjoying).

dessert

Pam and I shared dessert, a creamy orange delight. Aside from one bite for Gary, the guys did not have any dessert. 

It was a great visit with good people that was enhanced with the realization by all of us that The Yearling restaurant is pretty much at the half-way point between their home and ours. Good to know!!


Later that afternoon, Gary decided he wanted dessert. Our truck needed no GPS to find one of our favorite haunts....


Another highlight for me this week was a FaceTime visit with one of my sons. He lives hundreds and hundreds of miles from us, so these visits are a good alternative to plane fare, gas prices, and hotel reservations. 

Last weekend he ran a half-marathon through the California Redwoods, so he and Gary had a lively conversation on FaceTime about their marathon experiences. "Blended families" are not always easy. This visit did my heart so much good.


Gary's birthday was a couple of weeks ago. I gave him two jigsaw puzzles of classic cars. The first one was completed this week.

food trucks

Autumn has finally arrived in North Central Florida. I'm still wearing my Bermuda shorts and Crocs sandals, but slightly cooler temps and traditional fall activities are filling our days. This weekend is the annual Fall Festival in our +55 retirement community. 


The festival is made up of vendor booths for arts, crafts, food, home improvement businesses, Medicare consultants, and so forth. There was also live band music, oldies (of course!).

apple pie for me

Our favorite vendor is the dentist who hands out slices of pie for free!

pecan pie for Gary

Admittedly, neither of us use this dentist, but we surely do enjoy his pies!! (not all providers accept all insurance)

Gary waits for me

While Gary agreed to take me to the festival because of the pie, he was good to wait for me on a bench at the bocce courts while I walked through all the craft vendors. This is what true love does! 

one of 2 packages of popcorn

Somewhere in all of that I picked on the hint that Gary wanted some popcorn, so I came back to his bench with two flavors.

dish towel purchase

As I've said many times before, I don't shop like I used to. But a kitchen probably never has enough dish towels, so I bought three (3 for $20 was not a bad price). Two have a Christmas theme; I'll probably include them in a post during the holidays.

the "Twirlers"

The last attraction at the festival was a performance by the newly-formed majorettes group. Only four now, they did a fine job of reminding us of our high school and college days featuring choreography with batons.



Until next time, grace and peace.
Barbara

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16 comments:

~Lavender Dreamer~ said...

The Fall festivals in Florida are the most fun! I can always find a new piece of jewelry, handmade and special! The pie looks amazing and Gary is so sweet to go with you! Give him an extra hug from me! Hugs from a little farther away, Diane

Linda said...

Thank you for your kind comment you left...I have no news to report, the family is facing a difficult decision this coming week...anyways, I am glad you met up with Pamela and John, such a delight, smiles. Wishing you a beautiful evening my friend...and yes, it has turned quite cooler and we even opened a couple of windows. smiles.

Mari said...

The rainbow is so beautiful! We had a gorgeous one here 2 evenings ago and we missed it. But many friends were posting pics on FB.
Your lunch with Pamela and John looks like such a wonderful time. It's always good to meet with friends, and fun surroundings and good food make it even better.
I can imagine that the paperwork would be hard to get rid of. I'm dealing with that sort of thing with a bunch of letters my Dad wrote. We just can't keep all of them.

16 blessings'mom said...

That rainbow! I am so happy to see you getting together with Pam and John! I also love how Gary and your son found common ground, so nice. Also the craft fair, it's almost better to browse by yourself when they're not interested, and it's so nice he waited patiently! You found a good one! :)

Aritha V. said...

What a beautiful rainbow! I can imagine how emotional it must have been to come across your late husband's handwriting. Sometimes it's the smallest things that bring back so many memories. I'm glad the rainbow reminded you of God's presence. And I had to smile at the dentist handing out free pie! That's certainly one way to attract customers. 😊

Martha Jane Orlando said...

The rainbow is breathtaking, Barbara! So glad you were able to meet up with Pamela and John for lunch; yes, I enjoyed her blog about your visit, too. That Fall Festival looks like fun, too. Have a great week!

Robin in Virginia said...

What a beautiful view you had of the rainbow as you looked out your front door, Barbara! Your meal and visit with Pam and her husband sounded wonderful. I enjoyed your journey through the Fall Festival in your community. What fun!

Kim Carberry said...

What a beautiful morning and rainbow! Sending love and hug. It must have been hard going through the paperwork. The restaurant looks so full of character. It looks like a lovely lunch. How great to have a catch up with your son and the festival looks like fun.

Billie Jo said...

Hello, my friend! The rainbow is stunning! What a beautiful photo you captured. I am so happy you were able to meet and visit with your blog friend Pam. The restaurant looks so neat! I hope you are having a cozy Sunday afternoon.

Sandy said...

Rainbows are always welcome sights and a double one is a bonus. Loved seeing your pics with Pam. Glad y'all could visit.
Take care and enjoy the cool down.

Pamela M. Steiner said...

I'm sorry I'm so late getting around to commenting. I actually read this yesterday on Facebook, but don't like to comment there because I have to do it as "anonymous". So Here I am finally! We had SO much fun visiting with you and Gary at The Yearling Restaurant! It was truly the highlight of our week! And I love how you added some other good photos of the restaurant here that I didn't have, so if our readers will just read both of our posts, they will get the whole picture! LOL. There is SO much to see! Thank you again for suggesting it! Oh, I am so happy to see that you had a nice Facetime visit with your son. That is such a blessing! What an amazing invention! Oh, and I see that you and Gary had plenty of good desserts this week! Wow! Ice cream, pie...pop corn...all yummy stuff. You two know how to live! LOL. I hope you are enjoying this breezy cool day. It's almost a tad too cool out in the wind, but really so nice. I hope you have a blessed and beautiful week ahead. Oh, I loved the rainbow!!! God's gift and promise!!!

Shug said...

Oh how beautiful is this double rainbow. Thanks for sharing the picture Barbara. I read Pamela's post and I thought how great this blessing was for you all to be able to get together. I know this turned your struggles at the first of the week, into some joy for you to take home with you. Goodness, the desserts look fabulous. Enjoy the blessings of this week ahead..

Carol said...

I'm sure you're loving the cooler FL weather now that it's October, Barbara! I love rainbows, too--always a delightful sight. There is just so much beauty in nature, isn't there? How nice to meet up with your friend and enjoy a tasty lunch together. I had to laugh at the dentist handing out pies--I wonder if he's trying to increase his business :) Hope the coming week ahead is filled with more delights!

Terri D said...

I enjoyed Pam's photos and post about lunch with you two. Made me jealous that I wasn't there, too! That pie looks delicious! It was good seeing your son's face, and I know you both enjoyed the FaceTime! I'm enjoying the weather, too. It makes my morning walks much more enjoyable. Sending a hug, Barbara! xo

Jeanette said...

That rainbow is gorgeous! Looks like a nice lunch with good friends!

Becki said...

How fun that you get together with John and Pam. I need to visit her and see her view of your visit together. :)

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