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| our back yard (before we replaced the mulch with river rock) |
Well hello everybody! It's good to be with you in this New Year of 2026.
| my neighbor's Bougainvillea -- in January! |
North Central Florida has been experiencing the depths of winter (about as cold as it gets here). I've enjoyed wearing my socks, ankle-length blue jeans, long sleeves, and (on some days) even an undershirt! Some mornings it's just been too cold to ride our bicycles here in the neighborhood. Forty-five degrees is just about my breaking point, and at that, there needs to be little-to-no wind!
| "Me and My Shadow" |
But I usually still take a walk in our immediate community (our +55 neighborhood has some 16 of these communities). That walk, which is a BIG circle, is 1.3 miles. I don't walk fast these days, maintaining that movement, the sunshine, and fresh air are benefitting me even if I don't get the heart rate pumping hard and fast. (excuse the honesty, but I don't like to sweat!!)
| yellow cornbread in the cast iron wedge pan |
Cold weather calls for warm comfort foods. For New Year's we did not have my family's traditional black-eyed peas. I'm not at all superstitious but in my growing up years it was my mother's habit to include these legumes for "good luck." π
While I like black-eyed peas, a few years ago I decided to give up on them. Superstition or not, I had a terrible year, so maybe discarding the peas would be a little helpful?
I did bake a pan of cornbread and accompanied that with sliced ham. We plan to have the leftovers of that for our supper tonight.
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| our dining table |
All of the Christmas decorations have been packed away with the exception of this table runner. I bought it at Hobby Lobby in early December and just love it. The table may stay this way until I pull out a runner for Valentine's Day!
| the Rose Parade in Pasadena, California |
Gary turned on the Rose Parade but we did not watch all of it. Even with the benefits of HD TV, it doesn't hold my attention as much as it used to. But there are still some very clever floats.
Some people tend to get philosophical at this time of year as they assess the past 12 months, their lives, current events, and so forth. I've collected some thoughts that have come my way that are worth pondering. This one (which I may have shared before) came from Sister:
It's true. That makes me smile every time I read it. There is no doubt that carbs tend to comfort the broken heart, at least temporarily!
Literally just let people be wrong about you.
It does not matter.
Live with integrity and
let inaccurate opinions fall away on their own.
The rest will sort itself out.
(by Liz Ann on Facebook)
This is a quote I've had in the right column of my blog for about a year and I think it's worth leaving there:
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| (from theologian Randy Alcorn) |
All of us have not always responded well to things in life, so we need to forgive ourselves, as well as others. Hard circumstances often bring out the worst in us. We need to keep that in mind when observing people. Given time, kindness, and the grace of God, people work through the tough stuff and are often better for the experience. (and if they don't forgive us, then scroll back up to the quote about letting people be wrong about you. God knows the heart.)
As I said in my last post, we can't take our next breath or even blink our eyes except with God's mercy, so no matter what our situation, God has been good. Quoting from faithful grace.com:
When you recount God's faithfulness in the past twelve months, it strengthens your trust for the year ahead.
I will remember the deeds of the Lord;
yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.
Psalm 77:11
I close with this very pretty picture and another encouraging thought from CoffeeWithMyFather:
Until next time, grace and peace.
Barbara





17 comments:
This was good, Barb. Your backyard is so pretty and peaceful! And I love all your thoughts and sayings...they all make good sense to me! Your poinsettia tablerunner is very pretty! Yes, leave it up until Valentine's Day. It's still winter, and poinsettias are a winter flower in Florida! So there! I love your cornbread iron skillet cooker. I do bake my cornbread in an iron skillet, but it doesn't have the handy dividers. That would be nice. I may have to think about that. We did have black eye peas with ham cooked in them, rice, cornbread, greens, and meatloaf for supper yesterday. We took it over to Benton and Rose's house as they were busy with a project and her sister and son were there helping them. So it was a fun time and good food. I don't do it for good luck...it's just a good excuse to eat good food that we rarely ever eat (the greens and black eye peas), although John would eat them oftener if I fixed them. I pray that 2026 will be a year of joy and peace and good health for you and Gary. God is in control...and we can't control what other people want to do or think. That's His business, and we're better off if we stay out of His way! LOL. Take care my friends.
Barbara, I never really knew about the black eyed peas superstition etc on New Years until I started reading b!ogs. We never did it and I didn't know any who had that tradition. My dad was born and raised in Tennessee, but he never mentioned it. It is an interesting tradition.
It would be hard for me to put that pretty runner away. have a pretty red runner with poinsettia flowers that I also bought at Hobby Lobby a few years,ago. I couldn't find it and missed it this year and when I was packing everything up, I found it. I'm going to display it for awhile. Hey if you can do it, I can, too! π
In Alanon, years ago, they would say its none of our business what other people think of us. So true! What you said, reminded me of that.
I enjoyed your post. A lot of good stuff to ponder.
God bless to you and Gary. Stay warm.
Wonderful post with great advice and quotations. Thank you. It is so inspiring.
Wishing you and yours a wonderful New Year. God bless always.
Thank you for sharing your words (I don't like to sweat either) and the quotes (and your take on them), Barbara. The graphic with words at the end are perfect a reminder. Wishing you and Gary a blessed and adventure filled 2026.
Beautifully said, Barbara. Oh, and I have the same wedge iron skillet, and I am going to make cornbread today, smiles. Wishing you a lovely day.
After Danny's terrible bout with heart issues, we gave up the black-eyed peas tradition, too, Barbara. We were doing it more from tradition than anything else anyway. I absolutely adored your last graphic, too. Blessings to you and Gary in the New Year!
Thanks, Barbara. Lots of encouragement here. Haha...loving the quote about sweets and lettuce. How nice to have a nice safe walk out your front door. Blessings in the new year!
Ohh! Your weather seems practically tropical compared to here. It's a little above freezing! hehehe The walks sound wonderful and so does the food you have been cooking! I love the idea of cornbread but I have never eaten it, it's not a big thing here in the UK. Hmmf.
Those are fab quotes, especially the one about letting people be wrong about you.
Great post, wish you happy New year π ππππ
Wow its great to see flowers in January but I hope the weather is warming up for you, Its in the 30s here and I hate being cold but I bundled up and walked the dog. We are planning on being in Florida soon I cant wait. Love your quote on lettuce and sweets lol Chocolate has my back. Happy New Year 2026
Happy New Year, Barbara! Love that saying about sweets vs. lettuce--ha ha! If I don't have a bit of chocolate every day, you don't want to be near me (not really, but you get the idea!). Love the pretty table runner--I can see why you want to leave it out for a while. My tree is still up and with my husband getting shoulder replacement surgery tomorrow, it may just stay up for the whole month. That's okay :) Have a wonderful week ahead!
Dear Barbara, I love all the photos and everything about this post! Thank you so much for sharing!
Barbara, what a warm and thoughtful way to start the year. I love how you weave everyday moments your walks, the cornbread, even the table runner into reflections on faith, gratitude, and encouragement. Your reminders to forgive ourselves, let others be wrong, and trust God’s faithfulness are exactly the kind of wisdom we need as we step into 2026
That is a very pretty poinsettia table runner. I would keep it up until Valentines day too!
Oh how I needed a couple of those quotes today, Barbara. I hit a bump going into the new year - more of a curb than a bump, but something clicked in my head when I read this post. Thank you for writing exactly what you did.
First, I love the table runner and think it is perfect for leaving out during these colder (Florida) winter days. You've given us some great words to ponder and take wisely into the new year! Yes to cornbread and comfort food!! I had my pork and kraut yesterday and leftovers today. I don't believe in "luck" but do enjoy making the meals associated with certain holidays. I am not a fan of blackeyed peas, however, including "hoppin' john", or collards. Sending you hug and hope we can get together at least once this year!! xo
Beautiful post!
Bjxxx,
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