Monday, May 5, 2025

Horses and a Holiday


We live in a beautiful town that is literally surrounded with hundreds of horse farms, large and small. While neither of us are riders, we do have a small collection of four horses. 

Keeping these horses free of dust and watching the Kentucky Derby on TV is about as far as we went to participate in this last weekend's equine festivities. 



I'm participating in Joyce's Hodgepodge meme today. To join in the fun at her blog, click here: Hodgepodge Volume 601


1. Let's compare this May to last May. What's changed? What remains very much the same? 


I went to the "Blog Archive" listed in the column to the right of this post to see what we did last May. What stood out the most was our anniversary trip to Jekyll Island off the Georgia coast.


Anniversary Celebration on Jekyll Island


In the month of May, we have birthdays to commemorate, Memorial Day, a couple of graduations, Mother's Day, and our anniversary -- lots of blessings to celebrate!


2. What's something you may do this month? 


We had some very nice plans for Mother's Day, but the tour company called to say not enough people signed up. That's been cancelled, so we've made reservations for Plan B. As my husband likes to say, "That may happen, or it may not!"


red Knock Out Rose Bud,
a recent addition to our front sidewalk


3. Mother's Day is approaching (in the US of A)...in what way(s) are you like your mother? 


This will be the first Mother's Day since my mother died (last October). That same weekend will also be her 100th birthday, which will be incredible in Heaven with Jesus, Daddy, and so many others who have gone before her. 


How am I like my mother? Brown hair, brown eyes, similar height and body shape and a shared appreciation for dolls. 


This snapshot (below) was taken years ago when many of my blog posts centered around the antics of my imaginary Bed and Breakfast in a mountain town. I had a staff who kept things running while I huddled in my study to write the Great American Novel.


Mama and friends
during a visit to her home


To acquaint you with the main characters: 

Lily on the far left in the pink American Girl sweatshirt hoodie was my research assistant.


The 2 brown teddy bears are Grandad and Grammy Bear (me). Grandad Bear took care of maintenance of the property.


In front of the bears is Rent-a-Nurse, who came in to help Grandad Bear when he had knee replacement surgery.


The short lime-green guy is Rowdy, the ever-showing up neighbor kid.


The really small doll wearing a newspaper Yankee Doodle hat is the local society news reporter, Eaves Dropping. (She is an original design I made by myself.)


The Mr. Potato Head doll is Spud, the handyman who helped Grandad Bear with his projects.


The tall doll wearing the rose-colored glasses started out as Amanda Suzanna, who my sister liked to call Mandy Sue, and so that's who she was. She was the trouble-maker and pretty much the star of the stories. 


My mother is holding Mrs. Berniece Mertz, the chef at my Bed and Breakfast. The embroidered stitches on her apron: Kiss the Cook.


I sewed the wardrobe for all the dolls most of the time, with a few items purchased at the mall's American Girl store. 


Here is a close-up photo of the staff:



My mother was very supportive of my whimsy with these characters, so a couple of times when we drove our car to visit her (from Colorado to Illinois), I would bring some or all of them to visit her. As you can see, she played along very well.

Wow. Those days (and that blog) are all in the past. None of them are with me now. They had to go when other major changes became necessary. Although I do laugh every day in my current season of life, the whimsy of dolls is not with me any more.

4. Did you have a favorite book as a child? What was it and why was it a favorite?


photo source

I enjoyed Little Women by Louisa May Alcott. My mother gave me this copy when I was 10-12 years old. This was the first book that made me cry because ..... well, I won't say in case you've never read it. Those who are familiar with the story will know immediately why it made me cry. 


As a young girl, I guess this may have been the first novel-type book that I read and that kept my attention.


5. Are you more of a tortoise or a hare? Explain. 

Yellow Bellied Slider

This turtle was included in a recent post. To answer the question,  I'm probably more of a rabbit. When Gary and I began dating, I lived in a two-story house. He has often said how amazed he was at the speed with which I navigated the stairs. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 


Our yard updates are done. The bark mulch was scraped up, a landscaping fabric laid down, and then mid-sized rock (river rock) spread throughout. In spite of pulling and spraying weeds, the enemy was winning the battle in that bark mulch. Nobody in this house is getting any younger or more spry to bend over to pull them. Upkeep will always be a necessity, but this change will make it easier. 

I close today's post with this graphic from Marcus Stanley. He posts on Facebook some real good stuff.


Until next time, grace and peace. 

17 comments:

Pamela M. Steiner said...

I'm not sure that I knew one of your dolls was named Lily! You weren't playing "make believe" with them as much when we met and when I received my own special little friend named Lily Grace! Yes, we go through those stages in life where having make believe friends and stories seems to make sense and fills a void in our lives that becomes something very sweet and special, and then there is a time to move forward into new adventures, which you are doing now. I've kind of lost my "make believe" mojo too, but I still have my sweet Lily Grace and her friends and we still have daily conversations, but I don't think the world totally understands that so some things just have to stay 'private'. LOL. I loved seeing your Mother with your dolls, and how wonderful that she understood and played along. I know my mother would have also if she had been living when my Lily Grace came to live with us. My mother had her own doll collection, including a collection of "Little Women" dolls! I love that book too. I love your little horse collection too. Oh, and can you believe I forgot all about the Kentucky Derby this weekend? I always wear a hat for the occasion and watch the race and take a picture...but it totally escaped my notice this year! I love your beautiful back yard landscape and bridge over not so much troubled waters. LOL. I like the idea of maintenance free yards...maybe someday we'll do that too. I enjoyed this post so much. You do have a busy month ahead...Happy Anniversary...I don't know which day! But celebrate all month anyway! LOL. Love to you both.

Pat @ Mille Fiori Favoriti said...

I remember your mountain town posts and doll staff, Barbara. I no longer have any childhood dolls, but I do have many of my Golden Books from childhood, and they are all still favorites that I was happy to share with our grandchildren . I remember my mother buying them one at a time for me at the supermarket where we lived. They were in a revolving rack and cost 89 cents each back in the day!

Sandy said...

I do remember the staff. I miss their antics, but I do understand that sometimes things just change and that is that.
Your mother is beautiful and having the most delightful birthday this year.
The yard looks nice with your little bridge and making things easy is always good. We want things to be fun and not all work.

Robin in Virginia said...

The yard update with the river rock, pavers and bridge looks fantastic, Barbara. I remember your staff from your blog posts in Florida. I managed to retain two dolls from my childhood that didn't get purged (or tossed in the trash) by my Mom. Happy Tuesday!

Terri D said...

I remember your dolls and your "staff" posts, Barb. Always fun!! Your new river rock landscaping looks so good!! Our management has issued a ban on rocks in our yards/beds. One neighbor is so upset about it that she is moving. Our property is owned by a private family and they can pretty much issue any orders, since we are just renters. Kind of different, owning your home but not the land. Most of us love it here and just bend the rules as much as we can and comply with the rest. I love that photo of your mom, and I can tell you two are related! Beautiful ladies!! xo

Martha Jane Orlando said...

I so loved your collection of dolls and your imagined staff at the bed & breakfast, Barbara. How creative! Your landscape looks wonderful, too, and perfect for Florida. We have lots of moss in our shady yard, but Danny has put down small river rocks in places subject to rain run-off. The moss has even started to grow on those! Blessings!

Victor S E Moubarak said...

Thank you for the final thought in your post. God bless you and your family.

P. S. I love those rocking horses.

Joyce said...

I don't know if I was reading your blog when you did the doll posts. But you have a big imagination and I admire that! I think the world lacks whimsy and imagination these days and more of it wouldn't be a bad thing. Hope you enjoy your Plan B!

Mrs.T said...

Little Women was the book I chose as well.

Love the quote at the end of your post. So encouraging! 💕

Kim Carberry said...

What beautiful ornaments.
It's fab we can look back on our blogs to see what we were doing in the past.
That's a shame that your plans have fallen through for Mother's Day. I hope you still get to do something nice. Sending love and hugs. I hope Sunday isn't too hard for you.

ellen b. said...

What a sweet photo of your dear mom and fun memories of her playing along with you and your staff. Bummer that the tour was canceled. Thanks for commenting on my Hodgepodge. It came through just fine. Hope plan B turns out lovely! Blessings.

Angela Webster said...

That's a shame about the trip being cancelled, I hope your plan B can go ahead.
Your mum sounds like she was a lovely lady, you must miss her terribly.
Your doll selection and their antics sound like lots of fun, you have a fantastic imagination.

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Lysha said...

What a great collection! I know many people find dolls creepy, but I have always loved them.

Billie Jo said...

Hello! Thank you for visiting my little space. I am happy to be a new follower, and look forward to many more visits.

Jennifer said...

The yard looks lovely...I know you will enjoy that space. I hope you enjoy the weekend - even if it is plan b. Those can be the most exciting:) Praying God gives you an extra measure of grace and encouragement from above as you miss your own mother. What a sweet blessing to have lived such a long life!

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